In the modern world, we can learn about things happening around the world in just a few seconds with a couple clicks on a screen. We are often lured to every variety of negative news—wars, disasters, accidents, or moral failures. But we also have connections with friends, family members, and other believers for instantaneous encouragement and prayer support. That latter aspect has caught my attention several times lately.
A quick look at my Facebook friend list includes not just family, classmates, and church members, but also a number of people I’ve never actually met in person. Some went to college with my parents or they know me because of my work with the denomination. But they aren’t just strangers—they are my brothers and sisters in Christ.
I listen to podcasts and read books and blogs by some well-known Christian names. Many times, I’ve found myself thinking, “I’m glad this person is a Christian, because one day I will get to talk to them in person in the kingdom of God,” or “I hope this person is a Christian, because they would be really interesting to talk to.” Recently I even found myself wondering if there was a way to connect a particular actor/author with a Christian apologist who could address his unanswered questions and misconceptions in order to bring him to faith. (I pray that God would make that happen.)
And sometimes, when a prominent speaker is caught in sin, my first response is not condemnation but prayer for their repentance and reconciliation with God and others. I have compassion for these members of the Body of Christ, because I too am a sinner in need of mercy, grace, and sanctification.
Since we believe that the Body of Christ consists of all believers around the world and throughout time, it can be fun to imagine future conversations with people we’ve only read about, from the Apostle Paul to Charles Spurgeon, to Great Grandpa Percy, to Pastor T. in Myanmar. But it’s also a reminder that as believers we have something in common that is more important than our differences of opinion or culture. Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:1-3,
“I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
Unity in the Body is not something we create, because it comes from our union with Christ. But we are called to maintain that unity in our interactions with one another. How might our words be tempered if we first prayed for one another? Would our opinions be softened if we looked at issues from the perspective of eternity? How many of the things that raise our ire today are even going to be remembered when Christ returns? We also shouldn’t underestimate the power of an honest compliment. In a world where kind words are lacking, it is encouraging to be reminded that other people actually notice something you’ve done. As Paul told the Thessalonians,
“We give thanks to God always for all of you, constantly mentioning you in our prayers, remembering before our God and Father your work of faith and labor of love and steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Thess. 1:2-3).
What would it take for our default response to be prayer and encouragement rather than aggravation and defensiveness? It starts with remembering that we are brothers and sisters in Christ, not opponents in a battle. By the power of the Holy Spirit we have unity that supersedes all other concerns.
“Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing” (1 Pet. 3:8-9).
© 2026 Dawn Rutan. Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture are ESV and all images copyright free from pixabay.com. The opinions stated do not necessarily reflect the views of my church or employer.


