Showing posts with label Distraction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Distraction. Show all posts

Friday, April 19, 2019

Fix Your Eyes


I’m in the midst of reading a couple books on prayer. In Pray Big: Learn to Pray Like an Apostle, Alistair Begg writes,
“All that matters may be brought before God, but what we bring before God is not always what matters most. When the eyes of our hearts are opened to our future, it changes our lives now—it reorders our priorities and our prayers. We pray less about the practical details of this life, and first and foremost about the spiritual realities of our eternal life” (29).
All too often we pray anemic prayers because we are distracted by the things of this world and we miss the things of eternity. That led me to think about what is most needed as churches gather together this Easter Sunday, perhaps with many visitors. The prayer I wrote in my journal included this: I pray that You will work in each of us to fix our eyes upon You as the author and perfecter of our faith... Let us not be distracted by words or music or flowers or people, but let us be captivated by Your glory.
After writing that down, I had to go back to Scripture to read the context of Hebrews 12:1-2 (NASB):
“Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”
When I’ve read those verses in the past, I’ve always had this mental image of a marathon runner nearing the finish line, with crowds of people on both sides. In fact, the “cloud of witnesses” has dominated the picture. But the whole point is that we would fix our eyes on Jesus as our motivation for endurance. While the crowd can be encouraging, our eternal security depends on Christ alone. Don’t get me wrong—our relationships within the Body of Christ are important and will continue throughout eternity, but people can also distract us from what God wants to do in our lives and in others at any given time.
Easter Sunday may be especially prone to that distraction. Most churches have extra decorations and special music, people tend to dress up more than usual, and there may be unusual events planned. The intent is (hopefully) good—we want people to engage with the message of the Gospel. But I wonder if sometimes our extra efforts actually distract people from focusing on God. It can appear that we are working to promote our church rather than fixing our eyes on Jesus.
Easter is justifiably a celebration of all that we have because of Jesus’ resurrection, both individually and corporately. Beautiful decorations and music are entirely appropriate. However, if I’m honest, I prefer the solemn simplicity of the Good Friday service at my church. There are fewer parts and, for me, fewer distractions from the One we are there to worship.
An Easter sermon by John Henry Newman comments,
“At Christmas we joy with the natural, unmixed joy of children, but at Easter our joy is highly wrought and refined in its character. It is not the spontaneous and inartificial outbreak which the news of Redemption might occasion, but it is thoughtful; it has a long history before it, and has run through a long course of feelings before it becomes what it is… Accordingly, Christmas Day is ushered in with a time of awful expectation only, but Easter Day with the long fast of Lent, and the rigours of the Holy Week just past: and it springs out and (as it were) is born of Good Friday.”
For those of us who come from church traditions that generally ignore Lent and may not think deeply about Holy Week, his comments may seem foreign to us. We can appear to jump into the celebration of Easter without experiencing the depths of Good Friday. The Easter Sundays that have meant the most to me were those that followed serious contemplation of the cross, Jesus’ death, and my sin that nailed Him there.
Let us not rush forward to Sunday’s celebration without living through the darkness of Friday and Saturday.
And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This He set aside, nailing it to the cross... Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 2:13-24, 3:2-3 ESV).
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Listen to Dennis Jernigan’s song, “It Was My Sin.”

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Thursday, August 3, 2017

Unplugged

I made the decision this week to delete the Facebook app from my phone, which will greatly curtail (though not eliminate) my use of Facebook. There were several good reasons to do so, some of which are as follows:

1) It is easy to waste vast amounts of time scrolling through hundreds of posts with varying degrees of importance. I could be spending that time in Scripture, prayer, writing, practicing piano, or many other more profitable pursuits.

2) It is dangerous to let one’s ego hang on public opinion. A negative comment, careless post, or an inappropriate image can quickly turn into a black cloud of anger, pride, shame, or other sins, and obscures the fruit of the Spirit. My identity is in Christ, not online.

3) It is human nature to make comparisons, and comparing the worst of what I know about myself with the best of what everyone posts online is sure to lead to negative thoughts. I don’t need to know about everyone else’s perfect family vacations when I’m sitting home alone.

4) Social media is predominantly superficial by its very nature. We all present the face we want the world to see. Yes, in some cases that may lead to deeper communication offline, but that is the exception rather than the rule.

5) Social media gives the illusion of intimacy where none exists. Knowing a few facts about someone or laughing at cat videos they’ve posted is not a relationship. The church already struggles to nurture authentic relationships, and social media is not helping. As Sam Allberry put it, friend has moved from being a noun to a verb meaning “to share one's contact details.” We’re still just as lonely and isolated as ever, we just have more things to distract us from recognizing that fact.

“Our spiritual condition is one of having spiritual ADD. We are more easily distracted from the important issues of our lives moment by moment. The nature of digital communication is that we are endlessly distracted.”
I don’t know if my decision will be long-term or not. Such resolutions tend to creep away over time. I just know it is the right thing to do right now. I know I can’t love God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength when I am also wondering how many new comments there are to read or when I’m trying to think of amusing responses. I also can’t love my brothers and sisters in Christ well when I am annoyed with them for something they have posted or when I realize how little they know of who I really am beneath the surface.

I yearn for more intimate relationships with a few close friends and for closer communion with God. I haven’t seen that happen to any significant degree in however many years I’ve been on Facebook. Not that there haven’t been good things there—encouraging words, inspiring quotes, reasons to laugh, prayer requests and answers to prayer. Social media can be a good thing, but it is not an ultimate thing.

“I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord” (1 Corinthians 7:35 ESV).




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