I’ve read some things recently that talked about fear as a
sin, and I’ve been wrestling with that thought. It seems to me that most of the
scriptural admonitions to “fear not” are more a word of encouragement than a
commandment. Some fears are good. We are told to fear God in honor and
reverence. Fear of imminent danger moves us to take necessary action. Certainly
there are some fears that are sinful. Fear of people and protecting our
reputation is pride. Obsessive worry about the future reveals a lack of faith
in God. It’s misleading to talk about the “sin of fear” without defining
exactly what is meant, and the authors who have done so have created some
unnecessary fear in people wondering if they’ve been unintentionally sinning.
Even though Jesus
instructed us in Matthew 6 not to be anxious because God provides, when He
spoke directly to Martha about her anxious preparations in Luke 10:41 there is
no indication that He spoke harshly or that she needed to repent of sin. He
certainly could have used stronger language of rebuke if He thought it
necessary. In my imagination He uses a very loving and perhaps even playful
tone. “Martha, forget the hors d’oeuvres and come join the party!”
For me the question of whether fear is sin or not comes down
to how it motivates me to act. If it gives me a goal to work toward and the
impetus to change, it’s probably a good thing. If it leads me to pray and seek
God’s will more, that’s good too. But if it paralyzes me and keeps me from
loving God and loving others wholeheartedly, I’ve got a problem. And if I’m
obsessed with anxiety about things I have no control over, I can’t focus on
doing all that God has called me to do. Then I really need to repent and cast
my cares upon God and learn to trust Him with the results.
One book I read recently, which I won’t even name, commented
that when we pray about something we should only pray it once and then trust
God, because repeatedly asking the same thing will reveal a lack of faith. (The
author later contradicted himself.) God knows our level of faith better than we
do. He also knows our thoughts and desires better than we do. So if something
is concerning us, we might as well talk to Him about it! We don’t have to nag
Him to answer our prayers, but we need not feel ashamed to bring up a matter more
than once. Can you imagine a marriage in which the spouses only talked about
new issues and never repeated themselves?
The book of Isaiah contains a large number of “fear not”
verses, and many are worth memorizing. Here are just a few:
- “Say to those who have an anxious heart, ‘Be strong, fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you” (Isaiah 35:4 ESV).
- “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand” (41:10).
- “For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, ‘Fear not, I am the one who helps you” (41:13).
- “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you” (43:1b-2).
- “Fear not, nor be afraid; have I not told you from of old and declared it? And you are my witnesses! Is there a God besides Me? There is no Rock; I know not any” (44:8).
- “Fear not, for you will not be ashamed; be not confounded, for you will not be disgraced; for you will forget the shame of your youth, and the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and the Holy One of Israel if your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth He is called” (54:4-5).
So if fear and anxiety are a problem for you, look to the
Scriptures and find encouragement there, since “There is therefore now no
condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). The admonition to
“fear not” is not intended to bring condemnation or shame, but is a reminder of
the God who is in control and who loves us more than we can imagine!
“So we can confidently
say, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?’” –Hebrews
13:6
